Sharfin designed and built our new website to enable us to accept online payments. The new website looks amazing and navigating around it so simple compared to what we had before. Sharfin and his team have always been available when we have required any technical support or assistance.
Dating website design with subscription payments built in
Live and taking card payments in 24 hours*. Age and ID verification, moderation and clear subscription billing built in.
*Approval time depends on how quickly we receive your documents. Free website for trading businesses processing £5k a month or more through eCom Pay, with start-ups looked at case by case. Pay monthly from £50 otherwise.
Can dating businesses take card payments online?
Dating is a specialist category that mainstream processors restrict. eCom Pay works with dating platforms in the UK, with subscription billing, 150+ currencies and next working day settlement once approved. eCom Pro builds the platform with ID verification, moderation and clear cancellation terms, which is what makes a dating site approvable.
24
hour approval*
150+
currencies processed
T+1
next working day settlement
0
rolling reserve
Dating platform stuck at the payments step?
Dating sits on most mainstream restricted lists because of subscription billing and chargebacks, so founders build the product and then cannot take a payment. Safety features and clear billing are what get dating platforms approved, so we build them in from the start.
- Website and payments application handled together, by one team
- Approved and taking payments in 24 hours* once your documents are in
- Next working day settlement with no rolling reserve, including specialist sectors
- Already declined or closed elsewhere? Tell us on the form, it changes nothing about how we build

What your dating website includes
Built as product features your customers use, and the features that keep your account healthy once you are live.
Age and ID verification at sign up
Every member verified before they can message, with the result stored against the account.
Profile and photo verification
Selfie checks and moderation queues so fake profiles never go live.
Reporting and blocking
One tap reporting, blocking and a moderation dashboard for your team.
Subscription billing done properly
Clear pricing, renewal reminders and easy cancellation, which is what keeps chargebacks down.
Safety pages
Dating safety guidance, community rules and a clear complaints route.
Chargeback evidence
Consent, login history and usage logged automatically, exported as a dispute pack.
Free, pay monthly or payments only for your dating business
Free for trading businesses above £5k a month in card revenue through eCom Pay, with start-ups looked at case by case. Pay monthly below it or for a custom build. Already have a site you like? Use our payments on their own.
Payments ready, vetted by our payments team
Before launch, the same people who handle your payments setup review your dating website and ask for any changes your business needs. Every business is looked at individually, which is why we never publish a checklist and never build to one. The site and the application go through together.
One form starts both your website build and your eCom Pay application.
Our payments team reviews the site as it is built, so nothing is left to chance at launch.
Approved and taking payments in 24 hours* once your documents are in. Next working day settlement, no rolling reserve.
Done all our website. It now accepts payments and it was very complex. Reachable at all sorts of odd hours, and had a very simple journey with sharfin. Highly recommend them and their expertise.
Sharfin was an absolute pro. Took time to really try to understand our needs and propose solutions which fit our budget and timescales. He made smart suggestions without being pushy but improving the plan so we didn't waste time or resources on things we don't need.
Every dating website we build is reviewed by the eCom Pay team before anything is submitted, so the pages a payment provider reads are right first time. That is why approval takes 24 hours once your documents are in, not weeks.
Dating website and payment questions
The questions founders ask before they apply, including the ones about Stripe, PayPal and Shopify Payments.
Can I use Stripe for a dating website?
Stripe restricts dating services, so UK dating platforms usually need a specialist provider. eCom Pay works with dating platforms, with subscription billing and next working day settlement once approved.
Can I use Worldpay for a dating site?
No. Worldpay does not accept dating services, so UK dating platforms need a specialist card processor. eCom Pay works with dating, with subscription billing and next working day settlement once approved, and eCom Pro builds the platform to work with it from day one.
Which payment provider approves dating websites in the UK?
Dating is a specialist category that mainstream processors restrict. eCom Pay works with dating platforms in the UK, with subscription billing, 150+ currencies and next working day settlement once approved.
What kind of dating sites do you build?
Relationship, matchmaking, niche community and faith based dating platforms run by registered companies. We do not build escort or adult content sites, and our sectors page lists what we do and do not build for.
How long does approval take?
Approved and taking payments in 24 hours* once we have your documents. The only thing that slows approval is how quickly the documents come back.
Can you build the app as well as the website?
Yes. We build the web platform first with the payments and verification in place, then the app can use the same account and the same checks.
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View GuideHow to take card payments for a dating website
Platforms, policies and what happens between applying and taking your first payment.
Read the guideGet your dating website and payments approved together
One form. We build the site, our payments team reviews it, and eCom Pay approves your account. Approved and taking payments in 24 hours* once your documents are in.
*Approval time depends on how quickly we receive your documents.